Everyone has considered, or will consider at one time or another what they need in their life in order to be successful. Some people need money, for others its fame, and everyone needs love, regardless everyone has their own objects of desire. Most people wish to live their life to the fullest, but few of us will ever reach that goal. I hope that I am able to someday. There are certainly things that I think about the second I wake up in the morning. Usually it consists of people I care the most about, what I need to do that particular day, and that I need to fuel my stomach.
Caring about people does not consist of dropping by someone and asking them "what's up" without genuinely appreciating what their answer is. Caring is an unconditional love to sacrifice for someone else when they are in need. Knowing this, I wish for the people that I care about to be the ones that actually care about me. This usually is never the case. If you are trying to please everyone, stop right now. You'll never do it. Just accept the fact there are certain people you will never get along with, and that's how it is. The people who try to do this come across as, and usually are fake people. If you genuinely show who you are, then people will respect you for honesty rather than the two-faced monster of acting. People nowadays do not know who their real friends are, with 2000 friends on Facebook, are you really willing to share all of your personal affections to all of these people? Success to me for this means having friends, true friends. Friends will come and go, family eventually will as well. It's a matter of life. Accepting but not lurking with these thoughts will put you far ahead of the game from everyone else. People I care about are amazing usually self sacrificing people. My mother has always been that type of person, and I am forever indebted to her for this. Countless car rides back and forth from school, and dealing with my mess around the house. I can say the same for my dad as well as he would take the shirt off his back if he could to help me out. All I can say is I hope I can be half the parent that you two were, and give my children everything I didn't have, which fortunately isn't too much.
Just sit back and think about people in your life, and who you are willing to sacrifice for, that means both time, money, and many other things. You have to ask yourself if it will be worth it in the end to try and make a difference in the life of someone else, regardless of if you will get anything back in return. I hope you will say yes to that because I certainly do.

